Skip to content

How to parent smarter not harder.

View all articles

Thinking Parenting Blog

Books to help children with anxiety

Children who are worried or anxious don’t always find it easy to express those feelings in words. Reading storybooks together with children is a great way to open up discussions and introduce new ideas in a safe and gentle way. You could do that with any story that features a character who worries. But there are also some brilliant books specifically written for this purpose. The best books to help children with anxiety are reassuring and approachable and give children some really concrete and practical strategies for managing their worries. Here is my pick of the best:

All My Treasures

All My Treasures by Jo Witek is a board book designed to boost young children’s happiness by encouraging them to focus on finding joy in simple things. In essence, it’s a simplified gratitude exercise for little ones. It could be really useful in prompting a discussion about what makes your child happy and helping them to focus on the positives. Especially good for building up a happy bank and returning joy in play for very young children who find themselves in difficult circumstances.  (2-4 yrs)

 

The Worrysaurus

The Worrysaurus by Rachel Bright is really gentle and soothing in tone. It’s perfect for starting a discussion about how anxiety feels physically and for introducing vocabulary around that fluttery butterflies feeling we get when we are anxious. The sweet illustrations and rhyming text make it a lovely read for all children – whether their worries are big or small. Out of all the books to help children with anxiety in the younger age range, this is my top pick. (2-5 yrs)

 

Ruby’s Worry

Ruby’s worry by Tom Percival is a great story to read if your child has small nagging worries. And especially if you think your child has a worry but they aren’t willing to open up about it. It has a light touch and is reassuring and sweet. While you read it, you can talk about why Ruby is worried, what that feels like and what Ruby (or your child) could do about it. (3-7 yrs)

 

Find Your Calm

Find Your Calm by Gabi Garcia is a wonderful way to introduce mindfulness to slightly older children and encourage them to start practising some simple techniques for easing anxiety. It is a really empowering book to read as a parent because it lights the way for talking to your child calmly and effectively about their anxiety and what they can do when they feel panicked or overwhelmed. The exercises slip neatly into the narrative and help children understand the physical side of anxiety and how they can calm themselves. (5-10yrs)

 

The Huge Bag of Worries

When it comes to books to help children with anxiety, The Huge Bag of Worries (by Virginia Ironside) is a must-have for all home bookshelves. All kids worry sometimes – whether it’s concrete concerns like school tests or vaguer fears about death and separation. Through a simple story and familiar-style illustrations, this book offers concrete strategies to help children manage their worries. By having a designated ‘worry time’, children are encouraged to let go of their worries for the rest of the day. It’s a practical book to help children to identify their worried feelings. And reading the book together will help parents and children talk about those difficult feelings in a constructive way. (7-11 yrs)

 

Don’t Worry, Be Happy

Despite the slightly flippant-sounding title, Don’t Worry, Be Happy by Poppy O’Neill is a comprehensive and practical guide for 7-11 year-olds on overcoming anxiety. It uses cognitive behavioural techniques delivered through engaging activities and interspersed with tips and inspirational statements. It’s an activity book rather than a story book so you might find it more useful to start with one of the other books to introduce the ideas and then move onto this one when your child is ready and willing. (7-11 yrs)

 

This is not a sponsored post – these are all books to help children with anxiety that I have personally chosen to recommend. It does however contain affiliate links which means that if you click through from this post and buy the book, I receive a few pennies from Amazon (see Disclosure Notice for more info).

The Woorysaurus is one of the best books to help children with anxiety - photo of bookcover

Share this article:

The Work/Parent Switch.

By Anita Cleare

Not sure where to start?

Practical tips on how to be the parent your child needs and create happy family dynamics (but still do your job!)

Comments are closed.

Words 'And breathe', Parenting expert Anita Cleare video tuorial on self soothe strategies for children

WATCH NOW Webinar

Self-soothe strategies for overwhelmed children

15 minute video

When children are anxious or overwhelmed by big emotions, self soothe strategies can help them to calm down and avoid a meltdown. This free video explains how to teach self soothe strategies to your child and offers a variety of self soothe ideas for you to try out.

FREE

Watch Now

Mindfulness apps for children and teens

The lifting of Covid-19 lockdown restrictions is positive news in terms of wider opportunities for children to play and reconnecting with friends and family. But many parents and professionals are...

Books for talking to children about emotions: picture of 'The Way I Feel' front cover

8 Books for talking to children about emotions

It takes time for children to learn to recognise and manage their feelings. Talking to children about emotions can help this process. Talking is usually best done when everyone is calm and no-one...