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How to have good conversations with teens

When your teen is holed up in their bedroom most of the time (or has their eyes fixed on a screen), it’s tempting to rush at a conversation whenever we spot an opportunity. Here’s why that’s not such a good idea – and how parents can have good conversations with teens:

How to Get Your Teenager Out of Their Bedroom is available at all great booksellers.

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