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101 ideas for supporting your child’s development

We all want our children to do well – at school and in life – and to reach their full potential. But battling over homework and bribing them to complete extra maths booklets isn’t always the best way of supporting your child’s development. supporting your child's developmentYoung children are like scientists. Their play is a series of experiments conducted on the world to find out how it works. Play helps children master key skills and develop neurological pathways in their brains: the more they use those pathways, the faster and more established they become.

The internet is jam-packed with practical ideas for busy parents to stimulate their child’s learning whilst also having fun. But most of us are too busy to wade through it to find the best ideas! So – to help out all you busy parents – I have compiled a handy resource list of articles and websites that cover all the bases when it comes to supporting your child’s development. From 2-minute games to 2-week projects, this resource list gives parents concrete do-able ideas for using learning through play to optimise their children’s development at different ages across key developmental areas:

Physical Development

The best way of supporting your child’s development when it comes to physical development is to feed them well and get them moving!

  • Check out this great list of gross motor activities for kids from Hands On As We Grow. A bit more prep required for some of the ideas (string, sticky tape etc) but guaranteed to help the most active toddlers and preschoolers to burn off energy and boost co-ordination.
  • The UK’s NHS Livewell website is a great resource for reliable information about everything to do with children’s health and physical development. Check out their 10 ways to get active with your kids for ideas for getting active as a family, whatever your ages.
  • Are you worried that your child is spending too much time sitting at a screen? Check out this Family Lives YouTube clip for information and ideas: Is your teen getting enough exercise? or take a look at these Fun family activities to tear teens and tweens off tech.

Fine motor skills

The best activities for supporting your child’s development when it comes to controlling small movements (fine motor skills) are arts, crafts, and construction activities. Check out these great websites for easy print-and-do crafts as well as more complex projects:

Language and literacy

  • Encourage young children’s language learning through songs and rhymes. If you are bored of singing the same song all the time (or aren’t sure of the words to those classic nursery rhymes!) head over to Words for Life where you will find rhyme and song lyrics and even mp3s so you can practise the tune!
  • Research the speech, language and communication milestones your child should be meeting (ages 0-17 years) and download free factsheets for parents to encourage children’s talking at I CAN’s Talking Point
  • Without a doubt, the best way to encourage children’s literacy is through reading. Reading to them, reading with them and helping them to read independently. Why not set yourselves the challenge of working your way through a list of 50 books!
  • And if your child doesn’t like books? There are lots of other ways to boost their reading skills – have a look at my 20 ideas to boost children’s reading (that don’t involve books!).

indoor play ideas to keep young children entertained

Mathematical understanding

Learning maths is much more than being drilled in the times tables. It involves filling containers with water and then emptying them, noticing the change in weight and how the liquid flows and adopts the shape of the container. Then doing it again and again with sand, with lego bricks, with pencils, with marbles, raisins and imaginary tea…. (For a glimpse into how toddlers learn mathematical thinking through repetition, see Help! Is my toddler OCD?).

If you want to work on your preschooler’s numeracy, take a look at this great summary of what young children need to understand about numbers on Resolve to Play (and follow them on Instagram for regular inspiration on using play to support learning).

As they get older, the opportunities expand for supporting your child’s development in applied maths through construction projects, cookery, managing finances and design projects. And there is also a place for introducing maths games into their technology time to make sure they get lots of practice…

Problem-solving & complex thinking skills

Helping children learn problem-solving skills sets them up to succeed in all areas of life. As with everything, practice makes perfect – try these websites for games, activities and projects for supporting your child’s development of more complex thinking skills such as planning, strategy and analysis:

Social & emotional skills

In infancy, participating in secure relationships with sensitive adult caregivers creates a strong foundation for developing future emotional security and interpersonal skills. As children learn to communicate, providing lots of opportunities for playing alongside and co-operatively with other children is the ideal way of supporting you child’s development of social and emotional skills. You can help your child develop emotional literacy by talking to them about feelings and friendships and families. You might find these resources useful:

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I’d love to know what you think of these resources for supporting your child’s development – is there something you’d like to add? Please let me know by commenting below!

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18 responses to “101 ideas for supporting your child’s development”

  1. Thanks so much for including us in the list Anita – such a great resource

  2. Gemma @ Confessions of a Nagging Mother says:

    I couldn’t agree more with reading! It is something I have always been passionate about and I have shared my love of books onto my children. Such an important thing to do 🙂


    Gemma xx

  3. mummy fever says:

    Great ideas – thanks #TwinklyTuesday

  4. What a fantastic list of resources. I am definitely going to bookmark this page! Thanks so much for linking up with #TwinklyTuesday

  5. Great ideas, thank you for sharing, I’m going to bookmark it so I can come back as Baby H grows #thelist

  6. That’s quite a selection 🙂 My boy is nearly 2.5 and we don’t do screen time. Pinterest and blogs are my best friends when it comes to entertainment ideas 🙂 Though going outdoors is usually the easiest and most enjoyable for both if us

  7. Lucy says:

    Some great ideas here, thank you. Going outdoors is pretty much our go-to for all kinds of learning. Sometimes though, I do like to do things with my toddler ‘just because’ – I think it is important that we not get so carried away with doing things that support literacy or mathematics or whatever that we forget to do things just because we enjoy them. #TheList

  8. Hannah Parker says:

    this is such an awesome resource – definitely bookmarked to come back to. I like that loads of the ideas are fun too, I listened to Baby, toddler, Me’s first podcast with Amanda Gummer last week, which was all about play, so it’s handy to have a resource like this for ideas. Thank you! And thanks for linking up to #TheList xx

  9. This article is brilliant for resources, and great to refer back to when looking for something specific. Our Kayas are always looking for new ideas to entertain and educate the children they look after.


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